不用獎勵跟懲罰,小孩子更積極主動!
獎懲,就是條件交換,驅使小孩子去做事的方法之一,若使用不當,或是過度使用,容易變成養胃口,獎品或罰則就需要越來越多或越來越重,小孩子才會考慮去做。為什麼要獎懲,這回歸到小孩子為什麼要去做這件事,若是小孩子自己想要去做,其實不需大人動口也會主動去做,若是大人要小孩子去做大人想要的而不是小孩自己想要的,那麼就容易動到條件交換,而多數大人又習慣用物質去做交換,因此小孩子就會看看能換到什麼,再決定自己是否要去做
先不論交換是好還是不好,因為會想要用到交換這個方法,其實是有很多現實的因素,但如果不跟小孩子做交易(利誘或威脅),就會很難帶嗎?一直很好奇的我,進入教育界後決定盡量不用到"獎懲",看看能帶到什麼地步,前前後後也邁進第九年了,目前還沒用到過,我跟小孩子之間的互動也沒因此不好,小孩子也不會因此都不做事情,這部分的經驗會陸續在後續紀錄中分享~~
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正觀察著今年的金針,會開到何時?!已經比往年晚一個半月到兩個月,目前花仍盛開著 |
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夏季的瓜類,進入尾聲了 |
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今年最後的一小區地瓜,大家一起挖出來 |
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從我手上接下昆蟲 |
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用大工具找尋漏網之魚 |
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金針採集中,基地趴趴走 |
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做地瓜薯條當下午點心 |
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剪蝶豆花 |
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採紫蘇做紫蘇茶飲料 |
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灑蚵粉 |
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施粉肥 |
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對農機具很好奇 |
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工作完享用點心 |